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Stuck on a Song? 5 Things That Actually Get Me Writing Again

Every songwriter hits a wall sometimes. You sit down with the guitar, open a blank session, or stare at a page of half-finished lines and nothing moves. Sometimes there’s no idea at all. Other times you’ve got plenty of ideas but none of them feel good enough to keep.

We call all of that “songwriter’s block,” but it’s rarely one problem. You might be overthinking. You might be tired. You might be judging a line before it’s had any real chance to develop. Or you might just be afraid the song won’t measure up to whatever you’re comparing it to.

I came across “5 Exercises for Overcoming Writer’s Block as Songwriters” a good piece by Rodney Alejandro for Berklee Online that takes a fairly practical view of all this.

Instead of treating writer’s block like some mysterious thing that just happens to you, it lays out a handful of exercises for actually getting unstuck. That approach lines up with how I think about it too: you rarely solve a block by staying in the same spot and pushing harder.

Usually you need to change something about how you’re working. Here are five things that help.

1. Stop editing while you’re still writing

The fastest way to block yourself is to write and edit at the same time.

You put down a line, read it back straight away, decide it’s too obvious, and delete it. You try another line, decide that one’s too predictable too, and it’s gone as well. Twenty minutes later there’s still nothing on the page.

It’s usually not that you’re out of ideas. It’s that every idea is getting rejected before it’s had a chance to go anywhere.

Free-writing fixes this better than almost anything else I’ve tried. Pick a prompt, set a timer for ten minutes, and write without stopping to correct or judge anything. You’re not writing to finish anything, you’re just generating raw material.

Try a prompt like “I wish you knew…” and keep going without lifting the pen. You might end up with an empty house, a coffee cup still sitting by the sink, an untouched side of the bed, Sunday mornings that feel different now, clothes still hanging in the wardrobe months later.

Most of it won’t make the final song, and that’s fine. The exercise already did its job by surfacing images and directions you wouldn’t have found by thinking about it directly.

Remember, writing and editing are two different jobs. Writing asks “what could this become?” Editing asks “is this good enough?” If you ask the second question too early, the first one never gets answered.

So when you’re stuck, give yourself permission to write badly for ten minutes. You can shape it later. First you need something to shape.

2. Map the idea out before you try to write it

Sometimes the block isn’t a lack of ideas. It’s that the idea you’ve got is too broad to actually work with.

“I want to write about loneliness” is a theme, not a song. Same with regret, jealousy, freedom, heartbreak, whatever. Themes don’t give you lines.

This is where a rough idea map earns its keep. Put the main concept in the middle of the page and branch out from there.

Loneliness might lead to “empty house,” “sleeping alone,” “old photographs,” “cooking for one,” “seeing couples together.” Then pick one branch and push further. “Empty house” becomes one plate on the table, an unused coffee cup, a second toothbrush still in the bathroom, a silent TV in the next room.

That’s where it turns into a song. “I am lonely” tells the listener what you feel. “Your coffee cup is still beside the sink” lets them feel it themselves.

The same trick works on the music side. If a chord progression feels stuck, map out different directions for it instead of grinding away at the same four bars.

Slow it down. Try 6/8. Move it to another key. Start with the chorus instead of the verse. Strip it back to one instrument. You’re not looking for the perfect option straight away, just reminding yourself there’s more than one road out of this song.

A lot of writer’s block is really just being convinced the song only has one possible direction.

3. Write somewhere else

A regular writing routine is genuinely useful. Sitting in the same spot at the same time trains your brain to know when creative work happens. But that same routine can turn into part of the problem.

You sit in the same chair, pick up the same guitar, open the same session, and you’re staring at the same unfinished chorus you couldn’t solve yesterday. You haven’t even played a note yet and you’re already back inside yesterday’s thinking.

Changing where you physically are can break that loop. Take a notebook to a café. Sit outside with the guitar. Write lyrics on a walk. Record a melody idea straight into your phone. Leave the laptop off and use a pen instead.

You might even pick somewhere finishing a song is genuinely awkward. That’s useful, because a studio carries an unspoken expectation the second you walk in: you’re supposed to produce something. A notebook in a park doesn’t come with that weight. You’re just collecting thoughts.

New places also feed you new material. You overhear conversations you wouldn’t otherwise hear, notice weather and traffic and small gestures in the people around you, and some of that ends up as lyric fuel.

Songwriting runs on input as much as output. Write in the same room with the same references long enough and everything starts to feel used up. Sometimes the fix isn’t forcing a new idea, it’s giving yourself something new to notice.

4. Reset your body before you try to force your brain

We talk about songwriting like it’s purely a head-and-heart thing, all inspiration and memory and feeling. There’s a physical side too that gets ignored a lot.

Hours in front of a screen or hunched over a guitar, singing the same line back for the tenth time, and your shoulders tighten up, your ears get tired, and your focus drops off. At that point, pushing harder is close to the worst move available.

So get up. Go outside. Stretch. Drink some water, make a coffee, take a short walk, look at anything other than the screen for ten minutes. Then come back to it.

The break has to be deliberate, not a way of quietly giving up on the session. Tell yourself, “I’m walking around the block, then I’m coming back to the chorus.” That gives the break a purpose and an actual return point.

Worth adding: stop the session while you’ve still got some sense of what’s next. A lot of writers push until the idea is completely dried up, which usually means finishing the session tired, frustrated, and with no thread to pick back up.

It’s better to end with a note to yourself. “Try a bridge after the second chorus tomorrow.” “Rewrite verse two from the other person’s point of view.” That gives you somewhere to start next time instead of a blank page and yesterday’s frustration.

5. Ask whether it’s actually fear

This is probably the most interesting kind of block, because it often has nothing to do with running out of ideas.

You might be scared the chorus isn’t good enough. Worried the new song sounds too much like something you’ve already written. Feel like the lyric is too personal to put out there. Comparing it to your favourite artists, or to your own back catalogue.

Perfectionism loves to disguise itself as writer’s block. “I can’t find the right chorus” is often really “I’m afraid whatever chorus I write won’t match the verse.”

Those are two completely different problems, and the fix for the second one has nothing to do with searching harder for a chorus.

Try finishing the sentence “I’m stuck because…” as plainly as you can.

“I’m stuck because I think the chorus is weak.” “I’m stuck because this lyric feels too personal.” “I’m stuck because I keep comparing this to my last song.” “I’m stuck because I don’t know how to finish it.” “I’m stuck because I’m worried the whole thing isn’t very good.”

Once you can see the real problem, you can actually respond to it.

  • Editing constantly? Ban yourself from editing for twenty minutes.
  • Worried the chorus isn’t good enough? Write five deliberately bad ones.
  • Lyric feels too exposed? Try it in third person and see what shifts.
  • Comparing yourself to another artist? Stop listening to reference tracks for the session.
  • Afraid to finish? Finish it anyway and call it a first draft.

You can always fix a first draft. You can’t fix a blank page.

What other songwriters do with the same problem

The Berklee piece also brings up a few artists who’ve dealt with this in their own ways, and I think the lessons hold up.

Nick Cave is the routine and discipline case. Inspiration doesn’t show up on command, but showing up consistently gives it more chances to find you. A writing habit can’t guarantee a good idea will land today, but it makes sure you’re there when it does.

Then there’s the perspective flip: what if this song belonged to a completely different artist? What if the acoustic ballad became electronic? What if the sad lyric sat over an upbeat groove? What if the verse became the chorus?

None of those experiments need to survive into the finished track. Their job is just to break the habitual thinking that got you stuck in the first place.

And there’s collaboration, which is its own kind of reset when you’ve trapped yourself inside your own head. A co-writer hears a hook in the line you were about to throw out. They suggest a chord you’d never reach for. They ask one question that reveals what the song is actually about. A second set of instincts in the room changes the whole equation.

Work out what kind of block it is before you try to fix it

This is probably the real takeaway from all five of these. Not every block needs the same fix.

  • No ideas at all? Brainstorm.
  • Rejecting everything you write? Freewrite.
  • Song feels stale? Change where you’re working.
  • Concentration’s gone? Take a short physical reset.
  • Rewriting the same four lines without progress? Ask if fear’s hiding underneath it.
  • Completely stuck inside your own head? Bring in another writer.

The useful question isn’t “how do I beat writer’s block.” It’s “why am I blocked today.” That’s a question you can actually answer, and once you can answer it, you know what to do next.

The block might be telling you something

There’s one more way to look at this. Getting stuck is sometimes useful information rather than a problem to eliminate.

It might mean the idea is still too vague. It might mean the chorus needs a different direction, or that you started editing too soon, or that you’ve simply been at it too long. It might just mean the song needs more time.

Not every song gets finished in one sitting, and not every session needs to end with something complete. Finding the right title is progress. Working out what the song is actually about is progress. One strong verse is progress. Realising it’s in the wrong key is progress, because now you know what to change.

Songwriters get so focused on finishing that they forget the whole process is one of discovery. You don’t always know where the song is headed when you sit down. That’s part of why you’re writing it.

Keep moving

Writer’s block doesn’t mean your creativity has vanished. It usually means something in the process has stopped moving, and the answer is to create movement somewhere else.

Write something rough. Follow an association you weren’t expecting. Change rooms. Take a walk. Pick up a different instrument. Write from someone else’s point of view. Ask yourself what you’re actually afraid of. Bring another writer into the room.

You’re probably never going to eliminate writer’s block completely. If you write songs for long enough, you’re going to get stuck again. What matters is having enough ways to respond that getting stuck stops meaning stopping.

Because more often than not, the next idea is already there. You just need to come at it from a different angle.


Source: “5 Exercises for Overcoming Writer’s Block as Songwriters”

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